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The Communicate with Intelligence™ System

The Communicate with Intelligence™ System is a personal development system utilizing communication as the key to unlocking one's highest human potential.


It is the only holistic, integrated, and transformative communications course exploring the three types of effective communication and three major elements necessary to understand and master within each type.


It addresses distrust, insecurities, and faithlessness in each type of communication that results in disconnection from self, others, and that which is greater than ourselves.  It then transforms that disconnection into connection in every kind of communication to improve relationships at every stage of life.


Unintelligent communication creates division and distrust.  Intelligent communication creates connection and trust. It is as simple as that.

Mary Lazier Smith

Mary is a seasoned educator with over thirty years of study and experience in communication. Holding a BA and MA in Communication, an Integral Theory Masters Certificate, and certifications in Emotional and Spiritual Intelligence, among others, Mary's comprehensive approach transforms communication skills. Her innovative methods foster deep connections intrapersonally, interpersonally, and transpersonally, enhancing self-awareness, relationship building, and spiritual understanding.

As a professor and facilitator, Mary is adept in creating dynamic learning environments, whether in academic settings, corporate workshops, or online platforms. She emphasizes practical applications of her diverse training, guiding individuals towards authentic and powerful self-expression in every aspect of their lives.

Inspired by thought leaders like Stephen R. Covey and Byron Katie, Mary continuously evolves her curriculum to integrate the latest insights into human potential and communication. Through her courses, she leads students to improve their communication skills and discover and live out their deeper life purposes.

Honest Reviews from Our Clients!

"Mary taught me how to acknowledge my perceptions and triggers helping me approach uncomfortable situations and conversations positively, which, in turn, helped me in my career and my personal life."


Carolyn M. - 4/26/2024

Customer Service Director

"Mary's teaching and coaching have had a profound impact on my life. She has guided me to new levels of self-awareness and connection...improved my communication skills & empowered me to express myself"

Will W. - 5/8/2024

Customer Service Manager

"Through discussions, examples, and using different “lenses,” Mary helped me learn how to communicate more effectively and respond more positively when others view situations very differently than me."

Gay M. - 4/26/2024

Parent & Teacher

"Mary is a fantastic coach with beautiful energy. Her coaching has helped me approach and engage with the world on a higher level, allowing me to find more joy in my life with emotional intelligence.

Supply Chain Manager

Arch A. - 5/16/2024

"My relationship with myself, my children, and others has exponentially improved, and I, for the first time in a long time, feel positive about life and look forward to my contribution."

Daughter & Parent

Jaylyn F. - 4/26/2024

"Mary has helped me improve my communication skills in both my professional and personal life with training programs such as Crucial Conversations and Emotional Intelligence (EQ)." 

Co-worker

Christie H - 5/8/2024